You are spouting Putin/Russia propaganda!
This is the 21st century and no nation should be able to take their neighbors territory - Period- which is what Russia has been doing now since 2014.
It wasn't a coup in 2014- Ukrainians clearly did NOT want closer ties to Russia- as I already illustrated- they wanted ties to the west. Your snide attack on Ukraine as a puppet is lost in the reality of their own heroics.
It is your SPIN which says we provoked Russia- which is complete b.s.
Russia already tanked the concept of not expanding NATO exactly BY invading Ukraine who gave up nukes in exchange for promise of territorial integrity- which Putin promptly. There was also never a promise - implicit or explicit- to not expand NATO
A negotiated settlement would give Putin just what he wants- more territory- you don't accommodate a bully who will then be satisfied- all it will do is encourage the next aggression.
Sorry but you are wrong Comrade