WOW just wow! I think part of the issue is what I have heard referred to as an "asian fetish" which you have been unfortunately having to deal with.

There's also a lot of stereotyping going with these guys too.

I am a big fan of James Bond movies- despite, yes I know, the obvious sexism and stereotyping in the films especially the earlier films of the catalogue.

My favorite movie is You Only Live Twice. In part because I remember watching it at the drive-in with my dad and sisters (who mostly slept through movies) when it came out in 1967. We grew up fairly poor and the drive-in was an inexpensive means to take several kids to the movies. In addition to watching the film with my dad, I was an 8 year old Nancy Sinatra fan (LOL) and she sang the title song.

Anyway, in the opening scene James Bond (Sean Connery) is in bed with a Chinese woman in Hong Kong and while kissing her he says "why do Chinese girls taste different than all other girls?"

UH?

Anyway, sorry to hear you have to put up with this stuff.